you're experienced dude I think Bob forgot Chris Elliott in Something About Mary okay the best advice yeah yeah okay the best advice if you're a premature ejaculator you gotta be careful not to abuse your penis but it would make sense like the masturbating yeah get rid of it flog the dolphin whoever that's when you have a pet the puppy whatever yeah no no but to do that before and and it would help it would help somewhat and you know what or you just get the first one out of the way if you're a premature get the first one out of the way just go in scuse yourself excuse me and in but it's called a refractory period I think in between when you ejaculate and the next time you can reload what do you mean it's harder it's when you're yeah because but after you're done after you're done right but if you like you're like after you're done don't you still have a little bit of a time frame where you have to like kind of sit there wait that's a refractory period I'm finally mentoring then in the next hard-on immediately if you're done you don't have a little bit good that's a good question I am I'm looking up to the left